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3 Little Ladies 
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10-28-13 03:53 PM - Post#4084072    

it was only a matter of time. I got a text from my brother this morning asking if I had talked to our dad this weekend. The next text said, 'we have a problem.' My first thought was my mom, so I called my brother. He said he was working and couldn't talk. He just wanted me to call my dad because he 'heard' he got fired.

I call my dad and he's at work. I tell him that I heard he might not have a job anymore. Then he tells me he had an accident Thursday. He's a delivery driver. He says the police were called, they did a PBT because they smelled alcohol on his breath. He wouldn't tell me what he blew, but said it was 'enough.' No OWI arrest, because he was on private property. It happened at a business where he was delivering. Phil said he doesn't understand why he wasn't arrested to be honest. He would have made an arrest.

His management was having a meeting today to decide if he'll be able to keep his job or not. I really hope this is enough to make my dad realize that he needs to stop drinking. He's quit before and can do it again, which I told him today. I just have a feeling that he won't. Even though he admitted to drinking in the morning the day of his accident he STILL says he doesn't have a problem. It's so frustrating.

I'm going to see if he will agree to attending a few AA meetings.

 
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10-28-13 04:17 PM - Post#4084074    
    In response to 3 Little Ladies

oh my Jen. That's about the last thing you need to be worrying about right now. Such a difficult time for everyone Gosh I hope he comes to his senses. So sorry.

 
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10-28-13 04:17 PM - Post#4084076    
    In response to 3 Little Ladies

oh no....you all dont need this added stress right now!!!! i hope he accepts your offers to get him help!

 
RedSquirrel 
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10-28-13 04:51 PM - Post#4084080    
    In response to FloridaScrapper

I'm so sorry Jen.

 
3 Little Ladies 
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10-28-13 05:10 PM - Post#4084082    
    In response to RedSquirrel

Thanks, sort of what I told my brother. Why are you calling me? There isn't much I can do 3 hours away.

I'm just glad that my dad didn't hurt anyone or himself. Hopefully this is his wake up call and he'll be open to meetings.

 
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10-28-13 05:41 PM - Post#4084084    
    In response to 3 Little Ladies

I'm so sorry Jen. I hope he can accept help and get on his way to recovery.

 
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10-28-13 05:51 PM - Post#4084088    
    In response to carpe scrapum

Oh Jen!! I am so sorry. This is not what you need right now. I hope he agrees to get some help. Big Hugs!!!

 
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10-28-13 06:25 PM - Post#4084108    
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oh man. I too hope he wakes up with what took place.

 
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10-28-13 06:33 PM - Post#4084116    
    In response to hockeymom24

Oh Man - - - -

 
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10-28-13 06:42 PM - Post#4084118    
    In response to Gramma - Claudia

so sorry



 
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10-28-13 08:35 PM - Post#4084124    
    In response to motherto3girls

oh gosh. This is exactly what you don't need right now....... I am sorry. Hugs.

 
WorkingMommy 
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10-28-13 09:08 PM - Post#4084130    
    In response to GwynnAsbury

I'm so sorry. Hope this gets his attention and he makes the needed changes.

 
scrappinmamma 
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10-28-13 10:26 PM - Post#4084132    
    In response to WorkingMommy

Jen,

I am so sorry!

I hope he makes the right decision. I think that this is the last thing you need right now. And you may want to say those exact words to him. Maybe also let him know, you need him to be your pillar of strength for you, Phil and the girls.

 
Megan - FT 
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10-29-13 08:08 AM - Post#4084154    
    In response to scrappinmamma

Jen....

I have been there, with someone who will not accept their reality. It killed him.

If you wanna talk, just shout. What it took me a lot of time to accept....you cannot fix someone who doesn't want to be fixed, and won't take that effort for themselves.

 
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10-29-13 08:13 AM - Post#4084156    
    In response to Megan - FT

So sorry to hear this, Jen. Hugs to you.

 
3 Little Ladies 
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10-29-13 08:27 AM - Post#4084160    
    In response to Aunt Rosy

Thanks ladies

 
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10-29-13 10:18 AM - Post#4084182    
    In response to 3 Little Ladies

I am so sorry to hear this. Thank goodness no one was hurt.

 
RedSquirrel 
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10-29-13 11:19 AM - Post#4084184    
    In response to boysmom

Good luck with that Jen.

And a for Lisa too.

 
Beth Ann 
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10-29-13 11:25 AM - Post#4084192    
    In response to RedSquirrel

Oh, hugs, Honey!

I hope that his employer has a "first time offense" policy, that basically forces him to seek treatment to remain employed.

 
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10-29-13 02:15 PM - Post#4084224    
    In response to Beth Ann

Good luck Jen! With everything else going on, you don't need another worry! Hopefully he realizes what he's doing and gets some help....

 
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