12-08-12 06:31 PM - Post#4030650 In response to kaleidoscope
I was thinking a letter, too. That way the person has to 'listen' (most people wouldn't be able to ignore a letter) and it lets you gather your thoughts and get your message across as best you can.
Also, "I" messages. I feel... otherwise it becomes blame (even if you're not wrong) and the person feels/becomes defensive. You want them to understand where you are coming from.
I just don't know why but I feel so goofy writing a letter. I'm a hardened woman I suppose but I just don't want to dignify her actions with the time to write a letter and pour my heart out only to risk her wrath...