kaleidoscope
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12-08-12 06:12 PM - Post#4030642
In response to scrappinmamma
I was thinking a letter, too. That way the person has to 'listen' (most people wouldn't be able to ignore a letter) and it lets you gather your thoughts and get your message across as best you can.
Also, "I" messages. I feel... otherwise it becomes blame (even if you're not wrong) and the person feels/becomes defensive. You want them to understand where you are coming from.
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