09-25-12 07:55 PM - Post#4014428 In response to CBisme
I don't feel comfortable letting anyone but a close friend (in the we treat each other group) paying.
It took me a long time just to say yes when people would offer me a drink in their home even when I wanted to. I was always extremely shy/self-conscious growing up. Even when I started accepting I felt weird about it. For me, it's a lose/lose situation.