01-20-13 02:31 PM - Post#4041268 In response to kaleidoscope
For me, no. If I'm willing to post it then I'm willing to hear what people think even if it's "I don't think that looks good on you and here's why..." It might sting a little but I'd rather know what someone else thinks than either be flattered out of 'niceness' or not be told it doesn't look good. It's up to me whether or not I heed the advice/opinions.
I'll take honesty over flattery.
This. Of course like you said, it never feels great to hear less than flattering things but I also prefer honesty first!