Does she feel like the restaurant is to impersonal? Have you told her that hosting stresses you out? Not that you should have to explain yourself, but maybe if you did she could see it from your point of view. I don't know. Sometimes no matter what you say or do some people just cant see beyond their own needs or wants, selfish. I have a family member like that.
Married to my HS sweetheart
SAHM to my 3 little ladies (13,11, & 5)
NO I'M NOT GOING TO TRY FOR A BOY!!!!!
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