12-08-12 06:04 PM - Post#4030636 In response to kaleidoscope
I totally agree with Tam!
Maybe you could write a letter to her, listing all of the times that you and Greg have been there for her, all of the gifts, etc. and then say we don't understand why you don't realize this and why you couldn't accept our hosting at a restaurant.
If you think it would start WWIII, then I would wait until after the new year to send it. And I would have both you and Greg sign it.